Friday, April 4, 2008

GROW UP!

Arrived at work around 7.30am today. Yup, I know, crazy meh since I only start work at 8am. But purposely came in early lar to complete my e-BE form or else later when I go to KL, don't know whether I will have the time (or patience) to complete the form. Even worse, with all the hecticness to settledown, might completely forgotten about it. So, I better get it done before I go. End up, I still need to pay another RM160++ on top of those that were already deducted monthly. So taxing lar (pun intended!). I think for 2008 income tax, it will be even worse because we received a rather hefty bonus just before Chinese New Year. Hhhmm...have also complain, dont have also complain. Human being never satisfied.

Last night at home, a mini war happened between my dad and bro. Bro has been complaining of getting migraine in the morning and cant get up of bed. And hence, not able to go to work. Has been doing this pretty often to the extend that dad and mom are getting worried for his health. So, dad asked me to drive him to see the doctor lor last night after work. But hor, he hor, go shout at dad, I dont know say what lar, cant hear because I was in the living room. And then suddenly I heard something crashing like people shouting. Wah I really in shock lor.

Personally thinking, I would say my bro is being lazy lar about going to work. He been going out very often and usually come back 2-3am in the morning eventhough he had to wake up at 6am the next day to get ready for work. He has a group of friends that is constantly tempting him to go out for drinks, computer games and whatever else. I am not sure if those group of friends work or not but then, if he knows that he have to wake up early the next day, why in the world have so many late nights? Even dad is angry about that now. And he is not a young kid anymore. Already 28 years old and still acting immature!

Actually before this, he is the more responsible one compared to me. But after his gf broke up with him a few years ago, he started to change for the worse. I can only say one thing: GET OVER IT!! AND GROW UP! Geez! The world does not come to an end just because a girl left him. Yar, so he loved the girl very much and wanted to propose to her. But if the girl felt she is not interested, then bro, move on! Sometimes really so angry at him and want to voice out but dare not because my bro is a rather violent type and will just throw things. He pushed the tv off the rack once when he was arguing with mom. So yar, he need anger management!

When I am not in Kuching, he is the one that my parents will depend on to help them especially with my sister with special needs. I will be depending on him to take care of my parents and remind my workaholic dad to slow down. Yeah, I can hire a maid to help out with the housework and my sis, but he has to start to be responsible as well instead of just think of having fun and hide out in his room all the time. He is in his room so much that sometimes I dont even see him for a few days! Yah, it is THAT bad! Sigh...make me worried about my parents and sister nia.

6 comments:

Dav DiDi said...

Hhhmmm .. we have the same species of bro ... just that, my case, he is my older bro.. so me lagi dont dare say anything ..

Rose said...

Bro or should i said, men! They are the same!

Jen's Place said...

Didi,
So sad lor. They are suppose to be the person that lead the family ler...

Jen's Place said...

Rose, hahaha, yar, man - all the same species

headsteadi said...

walauwei ... really sad story. anyways, keep it strong!

Jen's Place said...

Hi Headsteadi,
Welcome to my blog ^_^

Definitely am trying to be strong but in the meantime, I think I will do it silently and not stand up to my bro until I have some martial art training...scare larrr....:P