Thursday, December 4, 2008

Dilemma?

Ok, so here is the thing, I initial thought I ask babe to do e-invitation to send to my colleagues and our friends since we are both in KL and that would be much easier. Why the hassle of asking our parents to send the wedding card here again? And we will just give the actual card to our bosses. I know almost all of my colleagues will not be able to make it since it will be in Kuching. But I am happy, I want to announce to the whole world that I am getting married! And I think it is courtesy to invite eventhough they might not be able to make it.

The thing is, I got this feedback from a colleague of mine that says, she also thought it is courtesy but some people assumed that it is because we want ang pau or presents from them! OMG! So, I am at lost about what to do. Shall I send them e-invitation card to them anyway or no need to send at all lar? Sum (kekekeke!I like this nickname) say if this is the case, no need lar because knowing our colleagues, some of them will think this way lor.

Oh well, nevermind. Just a few close friends and colleagues knowing my status changed from single but not available to married AND not available.

Note: PLEASE DO NOT CALL ME MADAM AS I WILL NOT RESPONSE! BLUEK!!!!

5 comments:

Gallivanter said...

Congratulations!! I supposed it's bad timing to ask whether you're free next weekend? I'm inviting you...see my latest entry! :-)

JenJen's Place said...

Hi Galli,
Thanks *blush*!

Also, thanks for the invite but I already have something on that day wor .....

Kok said...

jenjen,
I guess it's still better to send out the traditional invitation card. More sincere. Just like when you send an e-greetings and a traditional greeting cards, I guess, you'll be more happy to receive a traditional greeting card. :)

JenJen's Place said...

Hi Kok,
Actually, I don't mind either way as long as someone is sincere to invite me because it meant that they thought of me and it matters to them that I am in their invitation list....

Kok said...

jenjen,
Not everyone would think the same like you leh. Most of the people out there thinks that without a proper invitation card, it's not sincere. So, must do the traditional way loh. hehe